I can't stand it when people complain and whine all the time. If something is making you unhappy or miserable change it. If its within your power to do so than do it. Complaining and whining its going to fix anything. You either are going to just suck it up or make a change that will make you happy. Or you have your friends that call you all the time with the same problems rather it be their other half, kids or jobs. My friends don't call me to much with their problems because they know I will listen they first couple of times after that don't bother me with your crap if your not doing something about it and I basically tell them as much. Its like I'm every one's sounding board. Half the time I know I look like I don't care nor do I want to hear about your problems. I have my own I am dealing with. I tell people and remind myself; everyone has problems but there is always someone out there whose problems are ten times worst than yours. We all have to play the cards that we are dealt. Its up to you on how you play your hand. Some of us are dealt a pretty bad hand but what make what we can out of the hand and sometimes it turns out the hand wasn't that bad after all.